First published by KidSpirit Online -
https://kidspiritonline.com/magazine/resilience/just-keep-swimming/
https://kidspiritonline.com/magazine/resilience/just-keep-swimming/
Wednesday, October 11, 2017
Saturday, April 29, 2017
Prepared
Prepared
I'd like to write a poem
For someone I love.
We haven't met yet
but I'll be ready
when we do.
I'd like to write a poem
For someone I love.
We haven't met yet
but I'll be ready
when we do.
Wednesday, March 15, 2017
First Person in Chalkbeat - Scholastic 2018 Honorable Mention - Journalism
My article for Chalkbeat about NYC High School Admissions
http://www.chalkbeat.org/posts/ny/2017/03/15/how-i-navigated-new-york-citys-high-school-admissions-maze-in-a-wheelchair/
http://www.chalkbeat.org/posts/ny/2017/03/15/how-i-navigated-new-york-citys-high-school-admissions-maze-in-a-wheelchair/
Simply Speaking - 2018 KidSpirit Award
This is my feature article in KidSpirit Online. It is about being nonverbal.
https://kidspiritonline.com/magazine/simplicity-and-complexity/simply-speaking/
https://kidspiritonline.com/magazine/simplicity-and-complexity/simply-speaking/
Sunday, March 5, 2017
Robinson meets Vika
Robinson meets Vika
Dreaming of twelve eggs, but none of them mine,
Staring and hungry and thirsty for wine,
A boat off the island, I hoped I would find.
I hear the cannibals starting to pine
For a nice juicy Englishman's fingers and toes.
With freedom close as a macadam road
Unlikely found amongst backwoods told
To be home to a poisonous snake and a toad
That spits toxic venom from ten feet away.
Years of loneliness ended one day
When seeking a goat that often would stray
I discovered where one more castaway,
Was valiantly building a shelter to hide
From hazards and weather that could have tried
The fortitude of men, two times her size.
The teal cove below from where I espied
Her building her home of mud, sticks and reeds,
Had fish, fruit and nuts to satisfy needs
And a cool, shady spot under the trees.
I ate a few nuts while waiting to seize
Upon the right moment to open my heart
To a lady with whom I might discard
My inhibitions and openly part
With the clothes I wore and quickly dart
Into she warm, cerulean sea.
Reverie broken when she spoke to me.
"Why are you hiding in the Banyan tree?"
Coming forth smiling, I offered that we
Might between us have skills complentary
So a boat could be made so surreptiously
To evade the cannibals who thought us deliciously
Tender, although not maliciously.
She considered my plan as I moved down
To perchance entice her I offered a crown
I'd woven from flowers and leaves that I found.
Presented with friendship she baffled me now
Drawing a knife from inside her coat
She lunged at me frightened and slit my throat.
Dreaming of twelve eggs, but none of them mine,
Staring and hungry and thirsty for wine,
A boat off the island, I hoped I would find.
I hear the cannibals starting to pine
For a nice juicy Englishman's fingers and toes.
With freedom close as a macadam road
Unlikely found amongst backwoods told
To be home to a poisonous snake and a toad
That spits toxic venom from ten feet away.
Years of loneliness ended one day
When seeking a goat that often would stray
I discovered where one more castaway,
Was valiantly building a shelter to hide
From hazards and weather that could have tried
The fortitude of men, two times her size.
The teal cove below from where I espied
Her building her home of mud, sticks and reeds,
Had fish, fruit and nuts to satisfy needs
And a cool, shady spot under the trees.
I ate a few nuts while waiting to seize
Upon the right moment to open my heart
To a lady with whom I might discard
My inhibitions and openly part
With the clothes I wore and quickly dart
Into she warm, cerulean sea.
Reverie broken when she spoke to me.
"Why are you hiding in the Banyan tree?"
Coming forth smiling, I offered that we
Might between us have skills complentary
So a boat could be made so surreptiously
To evade the cannibals who thought us deliciously
Tender, although not maliciously.
She considered my plan as I moved down
To perchance entice her I offered a crown
I'd woven from flowers and leaves that I found.
Presented with friendship she baffled me now
Drawing a knife from inside her coat
She lunged at me frightened and slit my throat.
Cocoa - Scholastic 2017 Silver Key
Pauline stretched her torso, twisting toward the print projected over her floral headscarf. The market light faded as the sun moved behind the butcher shop next door. Alongside the stall, where baskets of beans were on sale with the vendor who proclaimed them the best you could buy in the whole village. She could smell that the couple with the smokehouse had begun pulling out their latest smoked meats. Pauline yawned and shook her head, the shop was especially slow today.
Pauline was a young girl when she started learning from her grandpa Mauricio the art of making chocolate. At his knee she learned the secrets of chocolatiering the way her family had for generations. Papa, as she always called her grandpa, liked to make a spectacle for their customers. Watching together, the crowd anticipated his delectable works of art. When his collectable truffles were complete, they sold out in no time. Pauline's were more delicate, more exotic, more fragrant, and without his showmanship they never sold as well. Papa's life was in the market with his family and the other craftsmen. He was so abundant, that his loss left a hole surrounded by depressed space where the sounds and smells were muted. Pauline gazed through the hole and decided to close for the day.
Quietly gathering her food donations for the week, Pauline failed to notice Charlie, her childhood friend who believed she had her papa's talent, arrive in his wheelchair. "Closing early, just as customer arrives?" Pauline jumped a little as she was broken out of her trance by Charlie's sudden appearance. "Yeah, no one will come by anyway they rarely do anymore" she whispered. Charlie barely heard what she said but was familiar with the morose look on Pauline's face. It was essentially her default look since Papa Mauro passed away.
Charlie had battled depression for years but Pauline was always there for a dose of pity prevention. He hoped to return the favor. "I need refreshments for my reading tomorrow. Harry says he expects fifteen people and they are tired of goldfish." Pauline laughed. Charlie was the print shop owner and he loved Pauline. She gently rebuffed his advances in high school and now they were dear friends. They graduated from the same university just four years ago and even spent their senior year in an off campus apartment together that ended up being the party house of the whole school.
"Well I suppose I could whip something up" Pauline said, while already planning in her head a new truffle recipe with a cayenne dust she could test out. "Look Pauline it will all work out, look at my print shop." "I almost lost her, twice." "Then I read about that new machine, the Xerox, and boom, success." Unbeknownst to Charlie Pauline silently mouthed those exact words having heard them several dozen times.
"Listen my little pea, remember no matter what anyone tells you, follow your passion and good things will come." It was the last thing Pauline heard in her dream from her Papa before she woke up with a sigh. The dream was familiar to her, she'd had it dozens of times since her Papa passed.
The sun reflected off the lake and you could smell the dew from the grass on the other side of the road. Racing down the countryside Pauline had a clear head. These Sundays where she opened the shop late and had the morning to herself helped keep her from falling into a depression. Speed was all that mattered right now, push harder, and again, don't forget to breathe. The repetition of the motion, the wind whipping against her face, and that slight smell of hot tire on the road were all part of her escape. She couldn't help but think of the first time she was on a bike. Her mom and dad trying to hold her seat as she pedaled down the sidewalk and her admonishing them saying she didn't need help. Charlie had mentioned that Pauline might want to get a hobby when she started to talk about feeling sad. She had always enjoyed going out on her bike but these days it was a need. It filled a hole that she felt she had to do something about, she felt accomplished on that bike, something she hadn’t been getting anywhere else lately.
The shop was immaculately kept, Pauline made sure of it. Often on nights when sleep escaped her, you could find Pauline scrubbing the counters or arranging the flour by frequency of use. She arrived Monday to a great surprise waiting at the door, her "uncle" Sal sipping his usual espresso. She ran over to hug him but he stopped her exclaiming, "Paula, a lady does not run to a gentleman caller." This was her Uncle Sal in a sentence. He was now in his late 70's and retired but got up every day shaved put on a freshly cleaned suit and went about his day. This was the only way he knew how to do things, Pauline had heard his diatribe on jeans in the workplace and untucked shirts.
"So Pauline, how's the shop going?" his tone giving away that he already knew the answer. "Well, I assume that Charlie has already told you and that's why you are here." Sal laughed loudly, he had one of those laughs that came from his belly and came out as almost a dull roar. "I always knew you were too smart for me to get one over on you mi picolo piselo." Pauline winced at the term, only her grandpa used that specific sentiment, italian for little pea. "When you were little I would do the quarter behind the ear trick for all the kids and they would laugh and laugh but you, nothing." "You would just stare at me like you were insulted I even tried." Pauline chuckled remembering all those birthday parties that he did that and how he waited for the laugh that would satisfy his need to entertain, just like Papa. Pauline repeated just like Papa to herself. She called him aloud in her mind knowing that reminiscing with Uncle Sal made her happy now but leave her gloomy for the rest of the day.
Pauline opened the store and invited Sal in to sit while she turned on the lights and peeked into the fridge to check that everything was setting properly. She came out to find that Uncle Sal was gone but something was left on the counter, an envelope overflowing with cash.
Pauline was dumbstruck and felt as if she was rendered paralyzed, trying to run after Sal but her brain wasn't responding as if it was operating on a different wavelength trying to figure out what went wrong. When she finally came to she grabbed the envelope and sprinted out the door to catch him. Up and down the streets she searched for him with no success. Like a thief in the night he was gone. But he wasn't a thief, at least she didn't think so. So was he Robin Hood, giving to her cause he thought she needed it. She knew one person who could shed some light on the situation. "Charles, get your ass out here right now!" Pauline's voice echoed to the back where Charlie was taking inventory and he shivered involuntarily. He wheeled to the front of the store and stopped Pauline from going behind the counter. "Sorry miss, employees only" he joked hoping to add some levity to tense situation.
"What did you do? What did you say to him?"
Pauline whispered as the noticed people still were staring after her raucous entrance just a minute before.
"You need help. I said you need help and you do."
Charlie turned around to face the couple perusing wedding invitations saying,
"We do lovely chocolate guest gifts."
Pauline had enough of his humor, grabbed his chair and wheeled him into the back room.
"Not cool, not cool, not cool."
Charlie hated whenever anyone started pushing him around just because they could. Pauline knew that and felt it conveyed how upset she was.
"Charlie I'm only going to ask you once, what did you say to Sal?"
"My Sal?" he responded hoping that he could banter her into remembering he only ever wants to help her.
"Charlie"
Pauline said in an almost pleading manner the fire in her eyes dying down to embers. That look broke him. Pauline was the strongest person Charlie knew; since they were kids she was unflappable. He knew her parents were the reason why vulnerability was hard for her. They never talked about them save for one night when too many margaritas led to an all night discussion, which had not disparated her demons.
"You needed help. I told Sal you needed help. Pauline, Papa left you with the shop to carry on the life you shared and loved. Without him the shop is not the same. You need to try something new, either in the shop or in the world. I will hate for you to go but you need just a connection to his legacy. You are his sustenance. You can't sustain the shop on his memory. It has to be yours."
"Pauline, you know how close he was to your grandfather." Charlie said as they were now at his apartment, having cooled down from the events of that afternoon. The sparsely furnished living room was filled with papers rustling in the breeze that came through the screen door. "Think of it as a possibility to start fresh, with that kind of money you could travel, study, you always wanted to see the French Alps." Pauline sat taking everything in, having only sort of heard what Charlie had said. "You know I can't leave the shop for that long. It wouldn't survive." "Well have you thought about selling..." "ARE YOU CRAZY" Charlie was visibly shaken at the outburst, the second time today Pauline had accosted him. "I'm the only one left. If it closes I've failed them and ..." Charlie couldn't hear what came next through her sobbing. He wheeled over to her and she laid her head on his lap, they sat like that in total silence until they both fell asleep.
Pauline got to the train station early. She watched the freight cars pull in, anxiously anticipating Charlie's shipment, the box car filled with her shop, her shop that she would open in Mavac, a town she found while cycling through France, while finding her way.
Pauline was a young girl when she started learning from her grandpa Mauricio the art of making chocolate. At his knee she learned the secrets of chocolatiering the way her family had for generations. Papa, as she always called her grandpa, liked to make a spectacle for their customers. Watching together, the crowd anticipated his delectable works of art. When his collectable truffles were complete, they sold out in no time. Pauline's were more delicate, more exotic, more fragrant, and without his showmanship they never sold as well. Papa's life was in the market with his family and the other craftsmen. He was so abundant, that his loss left a hole surrounded by depressed space where the sounds and smells were muted. Pauline gazed through the hole and decided to close for the day.
Quietly gathering her food donations for the week, Pauline failed to notice Charlie, her childhood friend who believed she had her papa's talent, arrive in his wheelchair. "Closing early, just as customer arrives?" Pauline jumped a little as she was broken out of her trance by Charlie's sudden appearance. "Yeah, no one will come by anyway they rarely do anymore" she whispered. Charlie barely heard what she said but was familiar with the morose look on Pauline's face. It was essentially her default look since Papa Mauro passed away.
Charlie had battled depression for years but Pauline was always there for a dose of pity prevention. He hoped to return the favor. "I need refreshments for my reading tomorrow. Harry says he expects fifteen people and they are tired of goldfish." Pauline laughed. Charlie was the print shop owner and he loved Pauline. She gently rebuffed his advances in high school and now they were dear friends. They graduated from the same university just four years ago and even spent their senior year in an off campus apartment together that ended up being the party house of the whole school.
"Well I suppose I could whip something up" Pauline said, while already planning in her head a new truffle recipe with a cayenne dust she could test out. "Look Pauline it will all work out, look at my print shop." "I almost lost her, twice." "Then I read about that new machine, the Xerox, and boom, success." Unbeknownst to Charlie Pauline silently mouthed those exact words having heard them several dozen times.
"Listen my little pea, remember no matter what anyone tells you, follow your passion and good things will come." It was the last thing Pauline heard in her dream from her Papa before she woke up with a sigh. The dream was familiar to her, she'd had it dozens of times since her Papa passed.
The sun reflected off the lake and you could smell the dew from the grass on the other side of the road. Racing down the countryside Pauline had a clear head. These Sundays where she opened the shop late and had the morning to herself helped keep her from falling into a depression. Speed was all that mattered right now, push harder, and again, don't forget to breathe. The repetition of the motion, the wind whipping against her face, and that slight smell of hot tire on the road were all part of her escape. She couldn't help but think of the first time she was on a bike. Her mom and dad trying to hold her seat as she pedaled down the sidewalk and her admonishing them saying she didn't need help. Charlie had mentioned that Pauline might want to get a hobby when she started to talk about feeling sad. She had always enjoyed going out on her bike but these days it was a need. It filled a hole that she felt she had to do something about, she felt accomplished on that bike, something she hadn’t been getting anywhere else lately.
The shop was immaculately kept, Pauline made sure of it. Often on nights when sleep escaped her, you could find Pauline scrubbing the counters or arranging the flour by frequency of use. She arrived Monday to a great surprise waiting at the door, her "uncle" Sal sipping his usual espresso. She ran over to hug him but he stopped her exclaiming, "Paula, a lady does not run to a gentleman caller." This was her Uncle Sal in a sentence. He was now in his late 70's and retired but got up every day shaved put on a freshly cleaned suit and went about his day. This was the only way he knew how to do things, Pauline had heard his diatribe on jeans in the workplace and untucked shirts.
"So Pauline, how's the shop going?" his tone giving away that he already knew the answer. "Well, I assume that Charlie has already told you and that's why you are here." Sal laughed loudly, he had one of those laughs that came from his belly and came out as almost a dull roar. "I always knew you were too smart for me to get one over on you mi picolo piselo." Pauline winced at the term, only her grandpa used that specific sentiment, italian for little pea. "When you were little I would do the quarter behind the ear trick for all the kids and they would laugh and laugh but you, nothing." "You would just stare at me like you were insulted I even tried." Pauline chuckled remembering all those birthday parties that he did that and how he waited for the laugh that would satisfy his need to entertain, just like Papa. Pauline repeated just like Papa to herself. She called him aloud in her mind knowing that reminiscing with Uncle Sal made her happy now but leave her gloomy for the rest of the day.
Pauline opened the store and invited Sal in to sit while she turned on the lights and peeked into the fridge to check that everything was setting properly. She came out to find that Uncle Sal was gone but something was left on the counter, an envelope overflowing with cash.
Pauline was dumbstruck and felt as if she was rendered paralyzed, trying to run after Sal but her brain wasn't responding as if it was operating on a different wavelength trying to figure out what went wrong. When she finally came to she grabbed the envelope and sprinted out the door to catch him. Up and down the streets she searched for him with no success. Like a thief in the night he was gone. But he wasn't a thief, at least she didn't think so. So was he Robin Hood, giving to her cause he thought she needed it. She knew one person who could shed some light on the situation. "Charles, get your ass out here right now!" Pauline's voice echoed to the back where Charlie was taking inventory and he shivered involuntarily. He wheeled to the front of the store and stopped Pauline from going behind the counter. "Sorry miss, employees only" he joked hoping to add some levity to tense situation.
"What did you do? What did you say to him?"
Pauline whispered as the noticed people still were staring after her raucous entrance just a minute before.
"You need help. I said you need help and you do."
Charlie turned around to face the couple perusing wedding invitations saying,
"We do lovely chocolate guest gifts."
Pauline had enough of his humor, grabbed his chair and wheeled him into the back room.
"Not cool, not cool, not cool."
Charlie hated whenever anyone started pushing him around just because they could. Pauline knew that and felt it conveyed how upset she was.
"Charlie I'm only going to ask you once, what did you say to Sal?"
"My Sal?" he responded hoping that he could banter her into remembering he only ever wants to help her.
"Charlie"
Pauline said in an almost pleading manner the fire in her eyes dying down to embers. That look broke him. Pauline was the strongest person Charlie knew; since they were kids she was unflappable. He knew her parents were the reason why vulnerability was hard for her. They never talked about them save for one night when too many margaritas led to an all night discussion, which had not disparated her demons.
"You needed help. I told Sal you needed help. Pauline, Papa left you with the shop to carry on the life you shared and loved. Without him the shop is not the same. You need to try something new, either in the shop or in the world. I will hate for you to go but you need just a connection to his legacy. You are his sustenance. You can't sustain the shop on his memory. It has to be yours."
"Pauline, you know how close he was to your grandfather." Charlie said as they were now at his apartment, having cooled down from the events of that afternoon. The sparsely furnished living room was filled with papers rustling in the breeze that came through the screen door. "Think of it as a possibility to start fresh, with that kind of money you could travel, study, you always wanted to see the French Alps." Pauline sat taking everything in, having only sort of heard what Charlie had said. "You know I can't leave the shop for that long. It wouldn't survive." "Well have you thought about selling..." "ARE YOU CRAZY" Charlie was visibly shaken at the outburst, the second time today Pauline had accosted him. "I'm the only one left. If it closes I've failed them and ..." Charlie couldn't hear what came next through her sobbing. He wheeled over to her and she laid her head on his lap, they sat like that in total silence until they both fell asleep.
Pauline got to the train station early. She watched the freight cars pull in, anxiously anticipating Charlie's shipment, the box car filled with her shop, her shop that she would open in Mavac, a town she found while cycling through France, while finding her way.
Frosty
Once upon a time, a long time ago, near the North Pole, there lived a lonely snowman named Frosty. Frosty had no friends, not because he lived in the coldest place on Earth, not because he wore no clothes, and not because he tended to melt at the moment he was needed. Frosty had no friends because he wasn't kind. Frosty was cruel.
Each year, as the Spring was warming the Earth, Frosty began to melt. He knew the Winter would return his body and his hat, but he resented missing the sweet allyssum blooming. Everyone else saw the never ending days of Summer, while Frosty existed in the dark. It washed a shadow over everything. The centuries of freezing and thawing fractured his heart and left nothing but ice.
One morning Frosty woke the irate train ticket agent at 3 am. The agent was irate before he woke because he was dreaming about train delays. He became more irate seeing Frosty at his door. "I need a ticket to Snowy for today at 11 am ." The agent slammed the door.
Frosty stood on the doorstep, waiting. He thought of many ways to torment the train ticket agent. The agent did not return until his morning alarm woke him for work . By then Frosty had sealed the windows with ice and blocked the doors with snow. Frosty made him late!
Downtown at the dismayed vendor of slushies, Frosty was demanding an ice cream sandwich . The vendor was dismayed before Frosty arrived since one of the slushy machines was stuck. "I need a chipwich, now!" The vendor only sold slushies, to she returned to repairing the machine.
The vendor attended to the repair. Frosty reviewed the menu which listed twelve slushy flavors. He watched as she tinkered and then went into the back for a valve. When the vendor returned, all of the valves were frozen open and the floor was covered in slushy. Frosty closed her business!
The sanitation worker struggled with the hose connection to the street sweeper. She had one more street before her job was done. Frosty snickered as she determined that the sleeve had a kink in it. The worker went into the parts compartment for a replacement.
Frosty stood by as the struggling sanitation worker removed the old sleeve and tried to install the new one. The new sleeve was missing a screw. She returned to the parts compartment to look for it. Frosty smirked seeing the screw roll into the sewer. The worker turned around to see the hose flying around spraying water everywhere. Frosty would get her fired!
The townspeople were angry and frustrated. Frosty had to go and Spring was months away. They needed help now! A crowd gathered in the town square awaiting the mayor. "Frosty is a menace!" "Ban Frosty forever!" From the crowd came the voice of a small boy, "We have all we need in our own homes."
The next morning Frosty looked out his window and grinned at the glittering, white blanket covering the ground. He rushed out his door and slid and fell on the sidewalk. Frosty writhed and howled. Salt! The small boy waited until Frosty was nearly gone and grasped the top hat that returned each year. He ran home and tossed it in the fire. And the town lived happily ever after.
Each year, as the Spring was warming the Earth, Frosty began to melt. He knew the Winter would return his body and his hat, but he resented missing the sweet allyssum blooming. Everyone else saw the never ending days of Summer, while Frosty existed in the dark. It washed a shadow over everything. The centuries of freezing and thawing fractured his heart and left nothing but ice.
One morning Frosty woke the irate train ticket agent at 3 am. The agent was irate before he woke because he was dreaming about train delays. He became more irate seeing Frosty at his door. "I need a ticket to Snowy for today at 11 am ." The agent slammed the door.
Frosty stood on the doorstep, waiting. He thought of many ways to torment the train ticket agent. The agent did not return until his morning alarm woke him for work . By then Frosty had sealed the windows with ice and blocked the doors with snow. Frosty made him late!
Downtown at the dismayed vendor of slushies, Frosty was demanding an ice cream sandwich . The vendor was dismayed before Frosty arrived since one of the slushy machines was stuck. "I need a chipwich, now!" The vendor only sold slushies, to she returned to repairing the machine.
The vendor attended to the repair. Frosty reviewed the menu which listed twelve slushy flavors. He watched as she tinkered and then went into the back for a valve. When the vendor returned, all of the valves were frozen open and the floor was covered in slushy. Frosty closed her business!
The sanitation worker struggled with the hose connection to the street sweeper. She had one more street before her job was done. Frosty snickered as she determined that the sleeve had a kink in it. The worker went into the parts compartment for a replacement.
Frosty stood by as the struggling sanitation worker removed the old sleeve and tried to install the new one. The new sleeve was missing a screw. She returned to the parts compartment to look for it. Frosty smirked seeing the screw roll into the sewer. The worker turned around to see the hose flying around spraying water everywhere. Frosty would get her fired!
The townspeople were angry and frustrated. Frosty had to go and Spring was months away. They needed help now! A crowd gathered in the town square awaiting the mayor. "Frosty is a menace!" "Ban Frosty forever!" From the crowd came the voice of a small boy, "We have all we need in our own homes."
The next morning Frosty looked out his window and grinned at the glittering, white blanket covering the ground. He rushed out his door and slid and fell on the sidewalk. Frosty writhed and howled. Salt! The small boy waited until Frosty was nearly gone and grasped the top hat that returned each year. He ran home and tossed it in the fire. And the town lived happily ever after.
Peter Pan - Then and Now - 2017 Scholastic Honorable Mention
Peter Pan - Then and Now
Peter Pan and Wendy Darling are archtypal children of the 20th century. He is a boy's hero as defined by adults. She is a girl whose job is caring for other children. These definitions change as society's values evolve. Peter and Wendy reflect what is expected of boys and girls - even in their dreams.
When J.M. Barrie wrote "Peter and Wendy" in 1911, children were meant to be seen but not heard. Disney's "Peter Pan" was made in 1953, during the post World War II baby boom, when children represented optimism in America. By the time "Hook" was released in 1991, children were actually heard all the time and parents were expected to listen. Whether changing times or the need for a spin on a familiar tale led to the differences, this story of a boy who wouldn't grow up is an indicator of children's roles in society.
In "Peter and Wendy", Wendy Darling is your typical turn of the 20th century girl, expected to help care for her brothers and listen to her mother's bedtime stories every night. It is those stories that bring Peter Pan to the Darlings'. Even though Peter has decided he has no need to grow up, his yearning for a mother is a constant theme in the story. Peter taking Wendy to Neverland stems from that need to have a mother to look after him and his "boys". This also shows the unfortunate gender disparity that existed at the time. Wendy is only going to Neverland to clean and read stories and look after the house while the boys have adventures.
Disney's "Peter Pan" was made during a time when women were homemakers and girls were homemakers in training. Wendy is not brought to Neverland for the purpose of being Peter's mother, but once she gets there she dives into household chores. The boys have similar adventures to those in the book. Adults are evil villians or absent. The main difference between the book and the Disney movie is the expectation in the movie that Wendy gets to be a child a little longer before becoming a fulltime caretaker.
"Hook" is the story of a father finding a way regain the respect of his family. Peter has grown up to be a father who drinks too much and ignores his kids. He returns to Neverland to save himself and his children. Peter succeeds by reconnecting with his inner child and defeating Captain Hook. He is forgiven much the way we forgive bad boy celebrities, after a single public apology.
Just as society has blurred the lines between adults and children, "Hook" blurs these lines by depicting the children as better people than the adults. "Hook" does not change the expectations for women or girls. Peter must become a child to be redeemed, and the female roles are focused on supporting him to become a better person. Wendy sends him back to Neverland, Tinker Bell offers advice and a pinch of fairy dust, and Maggie never stops believing in him. Peter would never succeed without them, but when he faces Captain Hook, he does it without the female characters present. Even in 1991, women do not join the fight.
Peter Pan's evolution from "Peter and Wendy" to "Hook" mirrors the change in the roles of children and women in society. The reader or viewer can track these changes in Peter and Wendy. They please the reader or viewer when they are released because they reflect society's values at the time. No one minds a naughty boy who needs his mommy, and father who doesn't parent, is forgiven if he flies and duels a pirate. But women still miss the excitement. It is no wonder my mother banned Peter Pan.
Peter Pan and Wendy Darling are archtypal children of the 20th century. He is a boy's hero as defined by adults. She is a girl whose job is caring for other children. These definitions change as society's values evolve. Peter and Wendy reflect what is expected of boys and girls - even in their dreams.
When J.M. Barrie wrote "Peter and Wendy" in 1911, children were meant to be seen but not heard. Disney's "Peter Pan" was made in 1953, during the post World War II baby boom, when children represented optimism in America. By the time "Hook" was released in 1991, children were actually heard all the time and parents were expected to listen. Whether changing times or the need for a spin on a familiar tale led to the differences, this story of a boy who wouldn't grow up is an indicator of children's roles in society.
In "Peter and Wendy", Wendy Darling is your typical turn of the 20th century girl, expected to help care for her brothers and listen to her mother's bedtime stories every night. It is those stories that bring Peter Pan to the Darlings'. Even though Peter has decided he has no need to grow up, his yearning for a mother is a constant theme in the story. Peter taking Wendy to Neverland stems from that need to have a mother to look after him and his "boys". This also shows the unfortunate gender disparity that existed at the time. Wendy is only going to Neverland to clean and read stories and look after the house while the boys have adventures.
Disney's "Peter Pan" was made during a time when women were homemakers and girls were homemakers in training. Wendy is not brought to Neverland for the purpose of being Peter's mother, but once she gets there she dives into household chores. The boys have similar adventures to those in the book. Adults are evil villians or absent. The main difference between the book and the Disney movie is the expectation in the movie that Wendy gets to be a child a little longer before becoming a fulltime caretaker.
"Hook" is the story of a father finding a way regain the respect of his family. Peter has grown up to be a father who drinks too much and ignores his kids. He returns to Neverland to save himself and his children. Peter succeeds by reconnecting with his inner child and defeating Captain Hook. He is forgiven much the way we forgive bad boy celebrities, after a single public apology.
Just as society has blurred the lines between adults and children, "Hook" blurs these lines by depicting the children as better people than the adults. "Hook" does not change the expectations for women or girls. Peter must become a child to be redeemed, and the female roles are focused on supporting him to become a better person. Wendy sends him back to Neverland, Tinker Bell offers advice and a pinch of fairy dust, and Maggie never stops believing in him. Peter would never succeed without them, but when he faces Captain Hook, he does it without the female characters present. Even in 1991, women do not join the fight.
Peter Pan's evolution from "Peter and Wendy" to "Hook" mirrors the change in the roles of children and women in society. The reader or viewer can track these changes in Peter and Wendy. They please the reader or viewer when they are released because they reflect society's values at the time. No one minds a naughty boy who needs his mommy, and father who doesn't parent, is forgiven if he flies and duels a pirate. But women still miss the excitement. It is no wonder my mother banned Peter Pan.
Poem
Like a trilobite trapped
We wait with wheels willing
Yet not able to proceed.
Without warning we wix
Freed from fossilization
Now trailing unwillful
to where?
We wait with wheels willing
Yet not able to proceed.
Without warning we wix
Freed from fossilization
Now trailing unwillful
to where?
My Home on the Mountain
I wrote this piece at Writopia and KidSpirit Online has published it. Read and enjoy.
https://kidspiritonline.com/magazine/human-dignity/my-home-on-the-mountain/
https://kidspiritonline.com/magazine/human-dignity/my-home-on-the-mountain/
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